Life has a way of throwing curveballs when you least expect them. Just when I thought I’d finally figured it out — career on track, body strong, love in the air, the universe said, “ Cute. But, no. Plot twist!” Never would I ever imagine that at the age of 30, I’d hear the words “I’m sorry, it’s cancer.” Oh, by the way, in the heat of the COVID-19 world pandemic. So the element of trying not to die, but times 100, like some impossible level in Super Mario with no cheat codes. 

This book is about my aggressive cancer journey and almost dying a few times (no biggie). It’s about life in all its messy, beautiful, heartbreaking, hilarious glory. From failed relationships to family expectations, from crying in the bathroom to laughing at the worst possible moments, I’ve learned that resilience isn’t about being unshakable — it’s about showing up anyway, scars and all.

Inside, I share the fourteen battle-tested, heart-approved principles that got me through the chaos. Some will make you laugh, some might make you cry, and others will feel like a much-needed kick in the butt.

But this isn’t just my story — it’s yours too.

After every chapter, you’ll find Reader Reflections: raw, witty prompts that hand the mic to you. Because your voice, your story, and your resilience matter just as much.

Equal parts heartbreaking and laugh-out-loud funny, this book is for anyone who’s been knocked flat by life and needs a reminder that getting back up — even shakily — is still a win.

This isn’t a self-help manual. It’s part memoir, part pep talk, part permission slip to feel all the things and still keep going. 

So grab a pen, bring your sense of humour, and get ready to fight like Hel.